In my early twenties, I didn’t have a huge number of girl friends. I’ve always had a couple of close besties, but I generally never ‘clicked’ with many other girls. I always found it so much easier to make friends with boys – I felt they were more easy going, less bitchy and the big one – I felt they didn’t judge me.
I realise now, that a lot of the walls I was holding up around other ladies in my life were directly connected to my own fears and insecurities – being afraid of what others thought of me, comparison and even competition.
However, over the past year I have felt the female relationships in my life shift dramatically. I have opened my heart to other women, I’ve dropped the comparisons, the gossip and bitchiness and completely embraced the freaking amazing females in my life.